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The Ultimate Guide to Active Listening: A Tanya Perry-Inspired Approach

• Step 1: Set the container. Before a meaningful conversation, say to yourself (or aloud to the other person): “For the next few minutes, I have nothing more important to do than hear you.” Put your phone face down. Turn your body fully toward them.
• Step 2: Listen for the unsaid. As the person speaks, ask yourself: What is the feeling beneath the fact? If they describe a failure at work, don’t jump to advice. Listen for shame, fear, or exhaustion.
• Step 3: Reflect, don’t direct. Use phrases like: “It sounds like…” “What I’m hearing is…” “The feeling I’m picking up is…” Then pause. Let them confirm, deny, or expand.

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